Here’s a trick for anyone who hears “you’re intimidating” a lot

But doesn’t fully understand why people think that about you 💡

It has to do with how you’re designed yall.

Your Conscious Sun tells you how you’re affecting people on purpose

Your Unconscious Sun tells you how you’re affecting people on accident- this is the part of you that’s intimidating but doesn’t know why

It’s like there are two sides to you…

Me for example, I’m 42 conscious and 61 unconscious

So consciously – I’m always increasing people, seeing and realizing their potential everywhere I go. I am naturally inclined to make people succeed
People thrive in my energy bc if I like/love you, I will build you up. My energy is a lighthouse and so people feel lit up by me
That is magnetic

AND, now…

Unconsciously- I’m always seeing The Truth, determining what is true and what is fake. My defined crown demands that anything or anyone I deal with be true and so I’m always filtering what is genuine and what is nonsense. I can’t be conned, if someone is fake, hiding, or even unaware of who/what they are- I just see it without trying

*Your unconscious gate is the thing that makes some ppl feel “intimidated”

Bc whether they know it or not, I see them
Straight into them
I see what is true and what they are hiding

I don’t even have to say anything to them
People sense that I know

And that scares the living shit out of some people

So they will be BOTH intensely drawn to me by the 42 and also feel scared to get too close bc of the 61

(Ps y’all- your relationship patterns will follow this as well)

Your Unconscious gate is what intimidates people

The key here is once you understand WHY you’re doing your thing unconsciously
WHAT you’re doing unconsciously

It not only demystifies the intimidation factor, but then you get to claim it, accept it and love it

Then the lines of these gates come into play

So for me, for example, when I submit to it- my line 4 automatically takes care of things. The RIGHT people aren’t intimidated, or they come into my sphere the right way so it’s a non issue. If I FORCE or try to bring someone into my sphere who hasn’t fully come in of their own accord, they will inevitably be hot/cold with me. A cat/mouse dynamic

👉🏻The men I’ve loved THE most? If I don’t allow them in at their own pace, at an increasing level that they are comfortable with? Hot/cold. Avoidant. Every time. When I allow them at their own pace? Consistent. An ever deepening level of closeness. Every time.

🔥Y’all I’m giving away GOLD here in terms of what you think “emotionally unavailable” in a relationship actually means🔥

My line 2 takes care of how it happens
When I’m being natural and fluid and in my zone of Genius, the intimidation factor dwindles down to almost zero

I’m sharing this bc I felt compelled to randomly just now.

And I’m going to tell anyone who books a 1:1 session with me this week exactly what their intimidation factor is and what to do about it too
💡🖤

Bc it is a game changer in your business, your brand and your relationships.